Your Soul Food for April 26, 2024: I Will Strain My Potential Until It Cries for Mercy!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

Try these powerful life principles to tap into your unlimited potential:
The author of ‘Passion Struck’ champions proactive living—cultivating a focused, intentional engagement in every aspect of our lives.

Power principles to tap your potential (fastcompany.com)

This 106-Year-Old Psychological Rule Is Still the Secret to Peak Performance. A Harvard Behavior Scientist Just Explained How to Use It Today:
If you want to perform at your peak, you want your stress levels to be not too high, not too low, but just right

This 106-Year-Old Psychological Rule Is Still the Secret to Peak Performance. A Harvard Behavior Scientist Just Explained How to Use It Today | Inc.com

Why do we venerate action and vilify reflection?

Tap one of the most powerful tools in your leadership toolkit!

The Power of Reflection – John Spence


If you are local-

Join us we celebrate 40 years of vibrant arts and culture in our community!

Mission Fed ArtWalk – Connecting Creative Communities (artwalksandiego.org)

Drivin the Bus at Mission Fed ArtWalk in Little Italy in the Piazza della Famiglia on the Main Stage, on West Date Street- Saturday April 27th from 12:30 to 1:30 Free, + you can explore the amazing annual art scene either before or after!

Little Italy Mission Federal Artwalk – Drivin’ The Bus (dtbband.com)

Want more live music?

Strange Crew (Clapton Tribute Night) Saturday April 27th from 6 to 10pm at Duck Foot in Miramar at 8920 Kenamar Drive. No Cover and it’s Phil’s birthday so will be wild!

Strange Crew – Clapton Tribute Night! | Duck Foot Brewing Co (duckfootbeer.com)

Create!

Love,

Neville

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Happy Soul Food Friday for the Weekend before Earth Day 2024

Happy Soul Food Friday for the Weekend before Earth Day 2024

This week:

Which Wolf Will You Feed?

We have important decisions to make that will affect the rest of our lives on earth and those that come after us.

What choice are you making and why it matters?

(14) Which Wolf Will You Feed? Or, the unedited story of the two wolves | LinkedIn

Let’s Unleash our Creativity with the mindset, heart set and skill set to change what we measure and manage-

What Would a Sustainable, Universally Beneficial Economy Look Like?

Are you willing to co-create a new model to save our planet and uplift humanity?

What happens when we stop our structural dependency on growth, we have seemingly become addicted to

Here is a different model to reimagine our future and reignite your hope for a better future!

Kate Raworth: A healthy economy should be designed to thrive, not grow | TED Talk

Opinion: When celebrating Earth Day, don’t forget our coast and the ocean
Make a difference: Protect, restore and take care of the only home we have

Opinion: When celebrating Earth Day, don’t forget our coast and the ocean – The San Diego Union-Tribune (sandiegouniontribune.com)

Why does this matter and who gives a $#!+?

Ten photographs that made the world wake up to climate change:
Award-winning photographers Paul Nicklen and Cristina Mittermeier choose 10 powerful photos that have changed our attitudes to climate change.

Ten photographs that made the world wake up to climate change | CNN

Calling Our Times the ‘Anthropocene Epoch’ Matters Dearly to You:
The name means human activity is profoundly changing our environment, and you’ll have to plan for those changes

Calling Our Times the ‘Anthropocene Epoch’ Matters Dearly to You | Scientific American

The Foods the World Will Lose to Climate Change:
Droughts, heat, and extreme weather are pushing crops to their limits. The race is on to innovate faster than the Earth warms.

The Foods the World Will Lose to Climate Change | WIRED

These five species may vanish. If they do, we’re all in trouble.
One animal purifies our water. Another provides a vital food source for three other species. This photo essay from Joel Sartore shows how saving one animal saves so many more.

These 5 lesser-known species may vanish. If they do, we’re all in trouble. (nationalgeographic.com)

Everyone says trees are good for us. This scientist wants to prove it.
An ongoing science experiment involves nearly 8,000 trees and shrubs in southern Louisville and health data from nearly 500 residents.

A scientist in Louisville is compiling data on trees and human health – The Washington Post

People stunned to learn plants ‘scream’ when you cut them:
But you’ll probably never hear it

People stunned to learn plants ‘scream’ when you cut them (ladbible.com)

What a Living Whale is Worthin the Fight against Climate Change:

Ralph Chami: translating the value of nature into dollars and cents in the fight : NPR

To know and not to do, is not to know…

Please think global, act local and remember action precedes motivation!

EVERY day is Earth Day…

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday April 12, 2024: Making Every day the Best Day of the Year at Work, at Play, in Nature, with Animals, in Wonder!

This week:

If you are local-

Gig Alerts for the Rest of April: 3 Gigs, 2 Bands, 1 Double Header, All a Fun Time!

If you are in the mood, or the hood, here are some live music options at very respectable hours across the county:

Drivin the Bus at the Loma Club in Point Loma this Sunday April 14th from 1 to 4pm No Cover

Loma Club – Drivin’ The Bus (dtbband.com)

Drivin the Bus at Mission Fed ArtWalk in Little Italy in the Piazza della Famiglia on the Main Stage, on West Date Street- Saturday April 27th from 12:30 to 1:30 Free, + you can explore the amazing annual art scene either before or after!

Little Italy Mission Federal Artwalk – Drivin’ The Bus (dtbband.com)

Strange Crew Clapton Tribute Night Saturday April 27th from 6 to 10pm at Duck Foot Brewing in Miramar at 8920 Kenamar Drive. No Cover

Strange Crew – Clapton Tribute Night! | Duck Foot Brewing Co (duckfootbeer.com)

Stay Thirsty My Friends!

Join me for a free virtual conversation, on establishing and nurturing a thriving, inclusive workplace culture that enhances employee engagement and drives positive business outcomes:

 Triton Table Talk | Building and Measuring Cultural Impact.

5:00p (Pacific Time) on Tuesday, April 23.

Register here: https://web.cvent.com/event/b76cfb27-764a-45c1-b021-170991e80965/summary

You are also more than welcome to invite guests or other team mates to attend.

Help address the current crisis of overcrowding in our local shelters:

Copy and paste one of the ads at the site below on your social media accounts to help get the word out and you will get a round of apaws!

Announcing Project Dog Foster! (campaign-view.com)

The vorfreude secret: 30 zero-effort ways to fill your life with joy
How can you change your life for the better today? Learn not just to appreciate happiness – but to anticipate it

The vorfreude secret: 30 zero-effort ways to fill your life with joy | Health & wellbeing | The Guardian

The Neuroscience of the Total Solar Eclipse Makes Us All Happier and More United
An eclipse is the ultimate awe-inspiring event, and a mountain of science shows awe makes us less stressed and more connected.

The Neuroscience of Why Solar Eclipses Make Us Feel Happier and More United | Inc.com

Solar eclipse: The 20 best photos from 2024’s celestial spectacle
The most stunning images from the cosmic event of the century. April 09, 2024 Eclipse fever has gripped large parts of Mexico, USA and Canada. Millions of people flocked to areas in the path of totality to experience this rare total solar eclipse, and festivals have been held in many towns and cities to celebrate this amazing natural wonder. The excitement has been compounded by the fact that this total solar eclipse coincides with the Sun reaching its peak in activity during its 11-year cycle.

Solar eclipse: The 20 best photos from 2024’s celestial spectacle – BBC Science Focus Magazine

Thanks this week go to Ogy M, Paul T, Bob C, & Charles C.

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for The Week of April Fools 2024 and These are No Jokes!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

Blessings:

Sometimes by Sheenagh Pugh:

Sometimes things don’t go, after all,
from bad to worse.

Some years, muscadel
faces down frost; green thrives; the crops don’t fail.


Sometimes a man aims high, and all goes well.

A people sometimes will step back from war,
elect an honest man, decide they care,
enough, that they can’t leave some stranger poor.


Some men become what they were born for.

Sometimes our best intentions do not go,
amiss; sometimes we do as we meant to.


The sun will sometimes melt a field of sorrow,
that seemed hard frozen; may it happen for you.

Awe!

Scientists Have Identified ‘8 Wonders Of Life’ — And Their Health Effects Are Powerful
Studies conducted in 26 different countries offer intriguing data on the surprising benefits of experiencing awe.

Dacher Keltner’s Guide To Awe And The 8 Wonders Of Life | HuffPost Life

Piffle, Rubbish, Balderdash!

Jane Goodall Reflects On How A Childhood Dog Changed The Way She Saw Animals
“Rusty, I’ve never known a dog like him,” the famed primatologist said, remembering her beloved canine companion.

Jane Goodall Says Childhood Dog Shaped How She Sees Animals | HuffPost Impact

Suddenly aware that you have been paying attention to the wrong body and mind all your life!

Drilling down through layers of delusion, confusion, personal strategies and karmic tangles to arrive at an experience of a stunningly simple and fundamental truth:

Koan and Shikantaza: Escaping the Trap of Delusion | Lion’s Roar (lionsroar.com)

Getting Real!

Spending time in nature makes you a more authentic person – a new study shows how:
Why simply going outside can make you more honest with yourself and others.

stylist.co.uk/life/nature-authenticity-study/874630

Joy is Non-Negotiable!

If you are local, come join us as Drivin the Bus will be playing at Mr. Peabody’s Bar and Grill on Friday April 5th from 8:30 to 12:30pm, with your favorite classic jams!

Mr. Peabody’s Bar & Grill – Drivin’ The Bus (dtbband.com)

Hearty thanks this week go to Chris B, Rex H, Drivin the Bus Band and Wonderers Everywhere!

Pay and Play it Forward.

Love,

Neville

Your Soul Food for Friday March 29: Can You Believe It? They Say It’s My Birthday and No Speciesism

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

If you are local-

Happy Spring Kats and Kittens!

We are back with live music to launch into Spring.

 Drivin the Bus will be playing on Saturday March 30th at Coomber Craft Wines in Oceanside from 6-9pm:

Coomber Craft Wines – Drivin’ The Bus (dtbband.com)

and Mr. Peabody’s Bar and Grill on Friday April 5th from 8:30 to 12:30:

Mr. Peabody’s Bar & Grill – Drivin’ The Bus (dtbband.com)

When I’m 64:

Believe it or not, I turn 64 on 3/29 (today) so I am considering the 3/30 show my “birthday show”, whether the band likes it or not, and for my birthday I want to make memories, doing what I love with those I love. 😊

If you are free, swing by for some classic jams with some spring frivolity and camaraderie!

You can reserve tables at Coomber’s if you are so inclined, call (760) 231-8022 for more info…

More gigs later in the month with both

Drivin the Bus and Strange Crew– (Phil’s birthday bash) and deets to follow.

No Speciesism-

Crows Perform Yet Another Skill Once Thought Distinctively Human
Crows are some of the smartest creatures in the animal kingdom. They are capable of making rule-guided decisions and of creating and using tools. They also appear to show an innate sense of what numbers are. Researchers now report that these clever birds are able to understand recursion—the process of embedding structures in other, similar structures—which was long thought to be a uniquely human ability.

Crows Perform Yet Another Skill Once Thought Distinctively Human | Scientific American

These mega-smart crows are cleaning cigarette butts off city streets — and saving millions of dollars in the process:
Cigarette butts alone make up a whopping 62% of all street litter in Sweden. You’ve heard of cleanup crews, but what about … cleanup crows? As part of a new anti-litter initiative, the Swedish city of Södertälje is using some fine-feathered friends to help clean cigarette butts off of its streets. The startup behind the mass crow-bilization is called Corvid Cleaning, in honor of the crow family’s scientific name, Corvidae.

Corvid Cleaning is training crows to pick up cigarette butts (thecooldown.com)

Thanks to family and friends everywhere!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for the Week of the Spring Equinox and Nowruz 2024: Spring Forward, Be Happy!

This week:

Spring Forward in this New Season of Life-

What the 3,500-Year-Old Holiday of Nowruz Can Teach Us in 2024:

What the 3,500-year-old holiday of Nowruz can teach us in 2024 (bbc.com)

Spring Equinox with Billy S:

Aloha Friends,
The spring equinox is on Tuesday, March 19, 2024, at 8:06 pm PDT. This moment begins the spring season in the Northern Hemisphere.
Translated literally, equinox means “equal night”.  On the equinox, the length of day and night is nearly equal in all parts of the world. Twelve hours of each, because the sun is positioned above the equator.
It is also known as the vernal equinox, “vernal” means fresh or new, and is from the Latin word for spring, which is “ver.”

On this day, the sun rises precisely due east and sets due west. The spring equinox signifies a rebirth. The duration of light is about to overtake the darkness.  
After the spring equinox, the days become longer and the air warmer. The soil becomes fertile, and all hibernating life is re-animated.  It is a time to plant seeds of growth.

The spring equinox is a time of renewal – in nature, the home, and in us. More than just physical activity, “spring cleaning” removes any negative energy accumulated over the dark winter months and resonates with the positive growing energy of spring and summer.
The spring equinox is a time where there is a special quality of energy – to plant, grow and renew our lives. Energy is emerging from the ground where it has been dormant in the earth since the winter solstice.
Wishing you a special day, symbolic of balance in our life and with the environment.
Stay in tune with nature and wellness.


Confront the Brutal Facts but Always Stay Hopeful-

We need to take our post-pandemic mental health crisis seriously:
We are a nation in psychological turmoil. Two juveniles were charged recently in the 48th mass shooting in 2024 at the Kansas City Chiefs parade. This is a wakeup call to address the mental health of the nation.

We need to take our post-pandemic mental health crisis seriously  | The Hill

The U.S. is no longer among the world’s 20 happiest countries:
The World Happiness Report is out, and once again the Nordic countries are humming along with the highest scores. Finland ranks first.

These are the world’s happiest countries in 2024 | CNN

California just formed a happiness committee. Here’s why.
A new committee in the Legislature holds its first hearing to figure out how to make residents happier. Chairperson Anthony Rendon says he’s wanted to take on the topic since watching the documentary “Happy” 14 times in two days.

California Legislature wants to promote happiness- CalMatters

Want To Feel Happier? Try Out These 7 ‘Micro-Acts’ Of Joy
Experts explain the science behind how these little positive habits can make a big difference.

These Expert-Backed Micro-Acts of Joy Will Make You Feel Happier | HuffPost Life

Thanks this week go to Billy S, Zoroastrians everywhere, and all of you helping practice and model happiness..

Please spring forward with good words, good thoughts, and good deeds!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for March 15, 20024: Movement as Medicine so Use it or Lose it!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week: Movement as Medicine

If it’s easy to do, it’s easy not to do…

Subscribe for free here for the year: 
Happy Soul Food Friday! – Building engaged communities that are empowered to realize their potential to positively impact the world.

It’s 2,500 Years Old. It’s the Latest Thing

Tai Chi Beat Moderate Exercise at Lowering Blood Pressure in Study:
A year after the study began, those who performed tai chi saw greater reduction in their blood pressure than those who followed an aerobic exercise program.

Tai chi beat moderate exercise at lowering blood pressure in study – The Washington Post

Qigong 101: A Beginner’s Guide to the Art of Cultivating Vital Energy:
This ancient Chinese practice promotes harmony of body, mind, and spirit.

How Qigong Promotes Harmony of Mind, Body, and Spirit (verywellmind.com)

The 14 Best Stretches For Releasing Tight, Achy Hips STAT:
They’re a great emotional release, too.

14 Hip-Opening Stretches & Why The Hips Store Trauma | mindbodygreen

I completed a 7-day posture challenge and honestly. I’m shocked at what it’s taught me about my body:
Plus, some tips on how to permanently improve your posture.

I Completed A 7-Day Posture Challenge – & Learnt A Lot | Marie Claire UK

Please move it forward!

Love,

Neville

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“Thomas Edison dreamed of a lamp that could be operated by electricity, began where he stood to put his dream into action, and despite more than ten thousand failures, he stood by that dream until he made it a physical reality. Practical dreamers do not quit.”

— Napoleon Hill:

Your Soul Food for Friday March 8, 2024: The Power of Music!

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

We finally know why live music makes us so emotional:
Hearing live music tugs at our heartstrings more than a recording, probably because it increases activity in an emotion-processing region in our brain

We finally know why live music makes us so emotional | New Scientist

This 1 Hobby Is Great for An Aging Brain, According to A New Study
And no one is too old to pick it up.

Playing Music Can Help Aging Brain Health, Study Says | HuffPost Life

Filmmaker Bao Nguyen on His Triumphant ‘The Greatest Night in Pop’
We asked, “The Greatest Night in Pop” director Bao Nguyen everything you would want to know about “We are the World.”

Bao Nguyen Interview: On Netflix’s The Greatest Night in Pop (uproxx.com)

Classical musicians got stuck in traffic with their instruments, and there was only one thing to do:
A blocked motorway becomes a concert hall, as a classical violinist and musician friends take out their instruments to help entertain stationary drivers.

Classical musicians got stuck in traffic with their instruments, and there was… – Classic FM

Please play it forward!

Love,

Neville

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Your Soul Food for Friday of Leap Year Week 2024: Health Trend and Future Predictions, Reverse to Do List Method and Wildlife Photographer of the Year Winner

Happy Soul Food Friday!

This week:

From sleep hygiene to boosting energy naturally, here are the big 2024 health trend predictions:
Nutritionist and author Clemence Cleave shares how to improve gut health through lifestyle and diet.

2024’s Health And Wellness Trends | olivemagazine

Arthur C Clarke predicts the future- from 1964 – Enjoy!!

I Tried the “Reverse To-Do List” Method and I’ve Never Been Less Stressed
I Started a Reverse To-Do List and It Saves So Much Stress | Apartment Therapy

Wildlife Photographer of the Year People’s Choice Award winner
A stunning image of a young polar bear drifting to sleep wins a wildlife-photographer competition

Wildlife Photographer of the Year People’s Choice Award winner (bbc.com)

Thanks this week go to Larry H for 5 miles and Ted D for Arthur C.

Love all,

Neville

Your Soul Food for Feb 9 – 23, 2024: Digital and Body Detox, Compassion Fatigue and More…

Happy Soul Food Friday!

Over the next couple of weeks, I am going to try a digital detox, so I will catch you on the flip side.

Meanwhile do know you are enough, beware of compassion fatigue, enjoy the poem and humor, and consider unsubscribing from everything that doesn’t feed your soul.

Joy is non-negotiable!

Love,

Neville

“Enough” by Andrea Gibson:

Last night I painted a purple tree on my bedroom wall

I woke up this morning in a pile of leaves

The color of a million different faces

Thinking of that hand

That planted the seed 

Of the family tree

That grew us all

And how each one of us

Will one day fall back to the ground

This morning

I was listening to my heart pound

Knowing with every single beat

That a thousand other hearts

Were falling asleep forever

On a day they never thought they would

And I know there are tribes of aborigines

That decide how and when they’ll die

After a hundred years or so

They walk into the desert alone

Offer up their breath

And within two minutes

Soar into a death

As beautiful as their life

And I was thinking I 

Will probably never be enlightened enough

To decide how I want to die

So this morning

I decided how I want to live

What I want to give

What kind of song I want to sing

Now I’m no longer

Looking at my days like they’re a cup

Calling them half empty or half full

When they’ve always been enough

They’ll always be enough

To fill me up

If I stop thinking so much

And start drinking them up

Until I get so drunk and high on my days

I’ll be walking up to strangers and saying things like

“Hey, I know Jesus was born in a manger

But I woke at dawn today

To watch the earth’s horizon

Give birth to true rising sun of God

And I can’t stop singing hallelujah”

Can you believe we’re here?

Can you believe there are gods somewhere praying to us?

I want to be that nut on a bus

Who’s really a prophet

Telling everybody 

“Smoking is bad

Stop it

You might be an opera singer some day

And how are you gonna hit the high notes?”

I wanna live like those high notes

That rise from the throats of old ladies

When they see little babies 

Riding in shopping carts

I wanna start somebody’s heart like that

Taking ninety years back

So you’ll have sworn

You weren’t born

Until you saw me

Planting roses

In all the sidewalk cracks

So when you trip

You’ll fall in love

With someone you thought you hated

And now look at what that love has created

Look

There’s a sky 

On her faded blue jeans

With a flock of birds 

About to fly to my words

And my next line’s

Gonna rhyme with her eyes

And she’ll wink

And I’ll think I’m as beautiful as him

I wanna live my life

Like it’s a little league game

I don’t care if I win

Just wanna watch some little girl

Get her very first hit

Watch her father cheer so hard 

He spills his beer

And decides to quit

I wanna split some woman’s 

Tired eyes open

Wake her with her own sunrise 

So she knows

There’s reason to be hoping

She’ll say

“There are stingers in my heart

But I’m sure that I’m a queen”

And that night

She’ll vow to swarm

Until every angry car horn

Is reborn a song

Of let there be light

Every angry war cry reborn

A song of let there be life

I wanna build the timid teenage boy

A microphone that will

Echo his rhymes

The same way 

They echo in his shower

When he’s home alone

I wanna write poems

In the tone

Of your mother’s eyes

When she whispered your name

For the very first time

Poems that will make you go home

Pick up the phone

And call her

While I call mine to say 

“You know those lines

On the kitchen wall

Where I grew

Taller and taller and taller

Put a couple more there won’t you?

Cause I’m growing up here”

No longer looking at my days

Like they’re a cup

Calling them enough

From now on

They’ll be overflowing

Since now I’m knowing

It’s up to me

To fill them up

The big idea: is compassion fatigue real?
Can we really maintain our levels of empathy in the face of an increasingly brutal news cycle?

The big idea: is compassion fatigue real? | Psychology | The Guardian

Think You Need a Detox? Here’s How To Do It Safely
It doesn’t involve juice cleanses or restrictive diets.

8 Tips for a Full-Body Cleanse (health.com)

Unsubcribe from everything to start controlling the tech in your life:

Does the number of unread messages in your inbox leave you lightheaded? Do your thumbs ache from tiny-keyboard typing? Have you forgotten what your real-life friends look like without an Instagram filter? It’s time for an intervention:

Unsubscribe: Radical strategies for taking back your time, attention and purpose | CNN

Humor:

Ever since I was a child I’ve always  had a fear of someone under my bed at night.

So I went to a shrink and told him, “I’ve got problems”.

“Every time I go to bed I think there’s somebody under it.”

“I’m scared. I think I’m going crazy.” 

“Just put yourself in my hands for one year,” said the shrink.

“Come talk to me three times a week and we should be able to get rid of those fears.” 

“How much do you charge?”

“One hundred fifty dollars per visit,” replied the doctor. 

“I’ll sleep on it,” I said.

Six months later the doctor met me on the street.

He asked, “Why didn’t you come to see me about those fears you were having?

” mm”Well, $150 a visit, three times a week for a year, is $23,400.00. A bartender cured me for $10.00.

I was so happy to have saved all that money that I went and bought a new pickup truck.” 

With a bit of an attitude he said, “Is that so?” “And how, may I ask, did a bartender cure you?”

Wait for it ….

“He told me to cut the legs off the bed. Ain’t nobody there now.”

It’s always better to get a second opinion…..

Please pay it forward with purpose!

Love,

Neville

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